Thursday, January 12, 2012

Peacocks and Music.

Well I sort of failed at the new years resolution today - kind of half failed I guess.  It was a very busy day and it really just zipped by and it wasn't until I walked out the door for a baby shower at 6:00pm that I realized I hadn't really done my act of service for someone in my immediate family today.  I don't even know where the day went.  While I was flying into Costco at top speed this afternoon to get some much needed groceries I saw something kind of catch my eye in the frozen dirt in the garden bed where we parked.  I bent over to get a closer look and I noticed that it was a feather - a peacock feather!  It had the peacock eye on the end of it and it was quite pretty, so I picked it up and as I did I was thinking how much Zoe would love to take this to school for kindergarden show and tell!  That was what one part of me was the thinking, the other part was thinking ewwwwwww, who knows how many weird and nasty germs are festering on this feather, don't even think about picking it up (never mind bringing it home for your daughter to tote around and take to school with her.)  But the soft side of me took over when I thought of the delight it would bring to Zoe, who every week looks for something unique and fun to bring for show and tell.  I was right - she was beyond excited when I showed it to her.  Her brown eyes got big as saucers when she saw it and I told her should could have it.  Then she reminded me of the time we had a peacock in our yard!!  Really we did!  A few years ago we were out front and the kids were riding around on bikes and what do you know this peacock comes sauntering up our driveway.  It stayed in our back yard for 2 days!!  The cat was horrified  by it and the dog was intrigued!   Then it got scared for whatever reason and let out this HONKING noise that was so loud it scared us all half to death!!  We ever have video of it that the kids love to watch!  So after reminiscing about the peacock Zoe says "I am pretty sure this feather is from that peacock that was in your yard mom!"  What a sweetheart, I am glad I went against my first eww gross instincts and kept the feather for her!!

My gratitude thought for the day is for music.  Music is a huge part of my life as well as my families life.  We enjoy all types of music in this house!  I like the way music can cheer me up - I love to listen to it loud when I am driving by myself in the van.  I love to listen to quiet music when I am feeling a little mellow. I love the way it makes we push harder when I am running, and I love how much my kids love it - Leah loves to be sung too before nap or bedtime (everyone of our kids loved to be sung to before bedtime).  In fact Leah loves to sing too - sometimes I am out in a different room and I can here her singing the same songs to her dolls that I sing to her.  Every morning when she wakes up she sings to herself in her crib.  It instantly puts me in a good mood (no easy feat when you are not a morning person!).  I love country music, I love pop music, I love kids music, I love jazz, I love classical, I love christmas, I love church music - I love it all!  I also love to sing.  I am not the best singer, and I am certainly not the most confident singer but I love to sing.  I think music is such a great way to express yourself!  I wish I had of taken the piano lessons for longer as a child.  I sure hope my girls stick with it too!

Anyhow off to bed, I get up early on Fridays to cook hot breakfast for the family.  Tomorrow we are having home made waffles with strawberries and whip cream :)  YUMMMMM!  And we have a busy weekend ahead of us.  We have a big dance competition on Saturday, a birthday party tomorrow night, a church activity and the list goes on!  Happy Weekend.

Sunshine is like medicine for the soul

Well today was a really good day considering I did not fall asleep until after 3:30am with insomnia and worrying about how the poor dog was feeling. Let me tell you 7AM did not feel very good today! But I was so happy to wake up to sunshine today! That is my gratitude item for the day. I am so grateful for sunshine, especially in the bleak winter months when it can go weeks without showing it's beautiful face! I think I may even be one if those people who suffer from S.A.D. (that seasonal disorder). I usually slip into a bit of a funk after Christmas when we know there are still several months of cold wet weather with no fun holiday like christmas to focus on. So days like todaynwhen the sun shines I am so grateful for it! Even though I was short on sleep I was pretty chipper all day!

Leah and I went out to do some running around and it was so sunny that we stopped to play outside. This is my act of service for the day. I am pretty wimpy ( ok actually very wimpy ) when it comes to being cold but Leah is nit bothered by it one bit. In fact she didn't even want to wear the jacket! It was seriously worth the suffering. Leah had such a great time running and jumping and playing. I loved watching her and it felt great to get some fresh air!

Piper seems to be feeling a bit better today. I have given her some extra hugs and pats. Last night I ended up sleeping on the couch because I could hear her banging her cone around downstairs. I wanted to take it off but I had to keep an eye on her so she didn't chew at her stiches. A few years ago she was hit by a truck (long story) and had to have surgery on her foot. A few days later she managed to chew off the big bandaid and chew all the stitches out which meant back into surgery to have it all stitched up again. I don't want to have pay for any more vet care than necessary.

Well off to bed. On an exciting note, I went out to fabricana tonight and picked out fabric to have curtains made for my bedroom! I'm pretty excited!

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Bad news is never good...

I'll start with my act of service - I really wanted to do something for Josh today since I have yet to do something for him since this started but today was so busy, dog had surgery, cyber school for Avri, dance class, piano lessons, gutter people coming to give quotes on our overflowing gutter issues and homework, homework, homework!  So it wasn't the biggest thing but I brought in the garbage cans and the recycling bins and set them back up in there spots.  I know kinda sad, he got a little gipped but he did thank me for it!!  And hey the wheels are broken on the darn cans and it is not easy to drag them up the driveway which is a bit of a hill!! And it makes me appreciate the fact that he does this for me every week!!  Or for our family I should say!  I have to say Josh is so wonderful, he never complains about anything, he just gets things done.  Unlike me who probably complains enough for the two of us!!  I am pretty fortunate to married to such a patient guy, he is really my best friend, I just love him!  Ok thats my mushy thought for the day!!

It's actually been a hard day.  Our dear Piper had to have surgery for what we thought was a sebaceous  cyst on her back hip.  I dropped her off at the vet at 8am (no problem at all when you need to get a bunch of kids to school for 8:20am but we managed.  Then I had to pick her up at 4pm and some how get three kids to a dance class at 4:30 on the other side of town!!  It was challenging but we did it!  I am glad I went by myself to pick her up from the vet though.  When I went in to get her the receptionist said - George want to talk to you about having the lump sent off to pathology.  I was surprised because yesterday he said he thought it was just a cyst?  So she went and got him and he said that to him it looked like it could be cancerous.  He said the lump was very unusual along with the tissue around it.  He felt it should be sent off so we could have a better picture of what was going on.  So with a huge lump in my throat I paid the $500 bill and put my poor sweet piper in the van to go home.  As soon as I closed the van door my heart broke.  I just wasn't expecting that.  She is only 7 1/2 and she has been pretty healthy.  Although I do have to say yesterday when he was squeezing it and I got a good look I thought it looked a little worse than the average cyst?  You know I will be ok if she is sick and not got a whole lot longer to be with our family.  What I am not ok with is telling my 4 girls this.  The will be devastated.  I had tears in my eyes several times since, thinking about it and watching Avri sit on the floor in front of her bed for 30 minutes tonight just patting her and loving her.  Avri has had her since she was 4 years old - they have grown up together.  Avri is just like me, she is a total animal lover.  I remember being a child and loosing a pet and how hard that was and I just want her or the other girls to have to go through that.

So this brings me to my gratitude thought for the day.  I am grateful for Piper.  Funny how when something is threatened to be taken away we all of sudden feel more attached.  I love her, she is a great dog.  She is smart and gentle and loyal and protective.  She is the sweetest dog I have ever known.  I feel safe at home when Josh is out and she is here with me and the girls.  I feel safe when I walk or run on the dyke with her.  She keeps me company when I garden outside, or wash the van.  She is a wonderful companion and is she is incredibly good with all children.  All of sudden all the things she has done to drive me crazy like dig a hole or rip flowers out of my garden, get into the garbage or have nasty diarrhea on my brand new $300 cream shag area rug, seem insignificant! I guess we will see what the future holds, it may be ok - although the look on the vets face and what he said didn't make me feel very confident.  We find out next week what the pathology report says.  Til then I will not being saying anything to the kids and I will hope for the best.

Here are a few shots of the recovering Piper.

Feelin a little sleepy after the anesthetic.


OUCH!!  The incision is about 4 inches or so.


You know its bad when you are even getting sympathy from the cat!!

Monday, January 9, 2012

pets and vets

WOw this week has got off to a busy busy start.  Its going to be one of those weeks that just whizzes by!  I had to take my dear Piper (our 7 year old golden retriever) to the vet today which brings me to my gratitude thought for the day.  I am so grateful for good veterinarian care.  Piper has had this bump on her back for a few months.  We took her to the vet and he said it wasn't anything but to keep an eye on it.  It was starting to get  a bit bigger so I was planning to take her in but on the weekend it practically exploded and she started biting and chewing at it.  I was horrified when I noticed it!  I would take a picture and put it on here to gross you all out, but honestly it grosses me out so much I can not take a picture of it because that would require me looking at it.  In fact when the vet squeezed at it I almost gagged.  He said it needed to come off and he was able to squeeze her in for surgery tomorrow!!  He is such a great Vet (George from Pitt Meadows Animal Clinic).  He did not charge me for the visit today because she is coming back tomorrow.  He has been so good to our pets!!  I say I am grateful for good veterinarian care because we have experienced both good and bad vet care during our pet owner days!!

As for the service I had 2 today!!  I helped Mika with some memorizing for her highland theory and painted her nails while she was practicing it.  She is such a smart kid, she can remember things so easily and she LOVES to learn.  I have to say that painting my girls nails is one of my favorite things to do!  In fact I have a slight obsession with OPI nail polish!  I think I have somewhere around 50 bottles!  I justify because hey there is 5 of us girls in the house so they go to good use ;)  The second act of service was later this evening after dance when I was driving Avri home from her dance class at 7:30pm.  I took her to McDonalds cause she was starved after a 90 minutes dance marathon class, and we sat in the car and chatted and enjoyed each others company.  I really needed to get home to the mounds of laundry awaiting me but I decided to take a few minutes with her alone and just hang out and chat.  (Ok and it was pretty nice for me to leave the chores behind while munching on fries and sipping diet coke:)  Sometimes these charitable acts end up being as good for me if not better!!  I am really enjoying taking time during the day to think of things I can do for family members and reminding myself of things that I am grateful for.  Sometimes I get on such a roll when I start thinking about it that I become overwhelmed.  I have so much to be grateful for.  I really think that it is important to remind ourselves of what we have and how blessed we are.  Everyone has things to be grateful for and when you take time out to think of them you become even more grateful for what you already have in all aspects of life.  Of course I am just like everyone else and there are plenty of things I want or wish I had but I am trying really hard to be happy with the life I have.

As for this week - it is a busy one with dance classes, piano, dog surgery, a baby shower, a few family birthday parties and it ends with a big dance competition ( for our association Fraser Valley Highland Dance Assoc) and a church youth activity for Avri!!  Better get to sleep, I need to be well rested this week!!  P.s I need to think of something to do for Josh - he is the only unserved one so far!!  Shouldn't be too hard, he is pretty easy to please!

bye bye weekend

I think my weekends are going to have be just one post.  It is so crazy around here on the weekends and this weekend was no exception.  We did have a great weekend though and we managed to sneak in some family time!  On Saturday we even foolishly decided to brave Costco together....all 6 of us.....at dinner time.  Proved to be a little difficult but we managed which brings me to my first act of service.  The kids really really wanted to eat at costco (yummmmm greasy fries, gravy and jumbo hotdogs!!) and hey I shouldn't complain, it was only $12.00 to feed our whole family but I really didn't want to eat there.  Also by the time we got to the checkout it was 5:55 and they close at 6:00.  ONe of my service rules that I didn't really add in the beginning was that it can not be something I paid money for.  If you know me you know I love to shop and that would make it just far to easy and alot less meaningful.  So anyway I decided what the heck I will let them have their dinner at costco and even let them have pop!  We were going to eat out anyway but lets just say that costco was not my first choice.  I survived though.

My saturday gratitude was for sleeping in :) yep I love love love to sleep especially in the morning as I am a total night owl (you might have figured that out since I am usually typing up this blog at 1am.  On Saturday my little Zoe got up first at 8am but she quietly played on my ipad and got herself a granola bard while waiting for everyone else to wake up!  I didn't get up til almost 10am!!  Such a treat!!

Today (Sunday) my act of service was for Avri.  She has been trying really extra hard to practice her piano more and learn her songs faster and she has been doing a great job.  She had a song that she was struggling with a little so I came and sat down with her and spent 10 minutes or so going through it with her.  Crazy thing is she is on her way to passing my piano knowledge!!!  In fact she knew things I didn't!!  But we worked on it together and we figured it out!  She loves it when I try and play her songs through.  She has great natural talent when it comes to piano - she sometimes lacks the disciple and motivation but she is doing better and seeing some results.  I am very proud of her.

My gratitude today was for church!  After such a hectic week, I love going to church on Sunday's with my family and taking a break from the crazy and hectic life that we lead from Monday - Saturday.  I love my friends that are there, I love the music and my children's primary teachers, who patiently teach my children each week that they are a child of god and that he loves each one of them for who they are.  I am so grateful for that knowledge that God is aware of me and that he loves me unconditionally.

After church I started in on a fun pinterest project that I found, my dear friend Nikki came over and helped me cut ribbon for it and kept me company while I plugged away.  It took alot longer than I expected but that is usually how these craft projects go!!  I will try and attach a picture of the valentines wreath made out of ribbons- and here is to another week!!  The picture doesn't do it much justice and they sticky finger prints on the french doors are embarassing!!

Friday, January 6, 2012

Yeah for Friday

Leah and I had a lazy day at home today catching up on chores and starting some of my new years organizing projects! I love organizing and wish desperately that I was more organized but I am really giving it a serious effort!

My act of service today was with Leah. After we did a huge overall on the play room she wanted me to help her get down her Dora play house and her little Dora figures. I decided to get down on the floor and play Dora with her. I wish I could say that this was something that I did often (playing at floor level with my kids) but I am so busy with house things and day to day busyness that I often don't take the time. I really enjoyed it and in fact we were having so much fun that she came into the kitchen and helped me make lunch. It is days lime this that I realize that they are only smallmfor such a short time. Right now they still love to do things with me ( I hope that never ends but I am sure it won't always be as easy as it is when they are 3 or 5 years old!)

Today I am grateful for corner stores. Sounds funny but the dinky little (albeit overpriced) corner store on 216th has come in handy so many times! It is so nice not to have to go all the way to save on, or even worse superstore when a recipe calls for something I don't have! Today it provided me with a $3.99 tiny bag of brown sugar! I could not have finished making my yummy monster cookies without it :). It has saved me several times!

Monster cookies are yummy, especially if you love coconut!

Recipe
3 cups flour (I use half whole wheat and half white)
1 teas cinnamon
1 teas baking soda
1 teas baking powder
1 teas salt
1 1/2 cups butter softened
1 1/2 cups white sugar
1 1/2 cups brown sugar
1 tablespoons vanilla
3 eggs
3 cups rolled oats
3 cups choc chips
2 cups coconut

Mix first 5 ingredients set aside. Cream butter and sugars. Add vanilla and eggs. Mix well. Add dry ingredients and mix til just mixed. Stir in oats choc chips and coconut. Drop by 1/4 cups (yes they are big!) onto greased cookie sheet or parchment. Bake at 350 for 12 min or until slightly browned. Makes 4 dozen BIG cookies :)

Happy weekend everyone! Oh and ps the pork chops sucked that I wrote about yesterday. You win some you loose some!

busy day!

It's going to be a short one today.  It was such a busy day with cyber school, orthodontist appointment in New West, 2 dance classes and 2 piano lessons!!  We were just going non stop (or at least I was!!) all day! I still managed to fit in my act of service!!  I helped Avri with a socials studies map of Japan.  She was assigned this yesterday and it was to be finished today but we spent 2 hours going to the orthodontist and she was behind.  Cyber school is great because it allows her to work somewhat at her own pace but she is still learning about how to manage her time.  Anyhow she spent a long time on her map but need some help with the fine lining and the legend and scale.  I enjoyed helping her - dinner suffered though so the kids had cereal and we had leftovers.  Luckily the pork chops will still be fresh tomorrow!!  I am trying a new very simple recipe for them.  You spread honey mustard on the pork chop then coat it with italian bread crumbs.  Then you cook them in olive oil in a deep frying pan with a lid on a med heat for 6-8 minutes.  I'll let you know how they turn out tomorrow!

As for my gratitude - today I am grateful for my sister in law Carrie.  She has become one of my dearest friends and a wonderful Auntie to my 4 girls.  She is a huge part of my life and I am grateful for her.  There are so many things about her that I am grateful for and she has become a huge blessing to our lives but the reason I chose this for today is because she is teaching my girls piano (In fact this is the 6th year she has been teaching my kids!!!).  Carrie is an amazing pianist and one of the most patient teachers I know.  My girls adore her and love spending time with her learning piano.  Normally she teaches them at her house but they are in the midst of finishing their basement and instead of cancelling the classes tonight she drove to our house and taught them here.  I am starting to see the pay off of these lessons as they are now able to read music and memorize pieces of music.  Piano music is one of my favorite things to listen to and I am so happy that my girls are learning how to play.  Avri actually thought about quitting just before christmas but changed her mind after giving it much thought.  Avri is very busy and finds it hard to find time to practice and sometimes it doesn't come that easy to her.  Because she has Carrie for a teacher and she loves her Auntie she is persevering and staying with it.  I am very thankful for her and her dedication to teaching them.

On a side note I am grateful that our cat Oscar is alive tonight!!  I went into the laundry room after putting the kids to bed and decided to throw on a load of towels.  When I opened the front loading washer door our big fat orange cat sort of fell out.  First off it scared the absolute heck out of me and then I quickly realized the seriousness of the situation and that if I had not gone in to laundry he would have died in there suffocating.  As it was he was damp for all the condensation from breathing in the enclosed space and he ripped up a bunch of the rubber seal around the door.  I have no idea how long he was in there but I am assuming a few hours.  I had this horrible vision of me having to tell the girls that he died in the washing machine.  How devestating that would have been.  Thankfully he is alive and fine and maybe short one of his 9 lives!!!